tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7855953606246549491.post4284598834791799833..comments2023-10-07T03:43:11.579-06:00Comments on My Life Revolution: Social Media, The World and the Drawbacks of Single LifeJerry Kromerhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/07169679497276701746noreply@blogger.comBlogger2125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7855953606246549491.post-7700841141030050022012-01-25T17:36:33.724-07:002012-01-25T17:36:33.724-07:00As for being single, I know you are hurting from S...As for being single, I know you are hurting from Shelly, but believe me, there are a number of people out there that have your same beliefs and standards. Just get out there and you will find them. Believe me, when Shawn (who I thought was my lifelong partner) cheated on me and left me this last year, I thought my world had ended. But I just dated around and have now found someone that who fits better with me than Shawn ever did!! But GUESS WHAT!?!?! I wouldn't have found him if I hadn't been out there having fun and going to dance lessons. Socializing with others in a group with similar interests takes the pressure off. Shelly is an idiot, as is Shawn, but guess what? You and I are GREAT people and whoever gets us is LUCKY. So find some groups to do stuff with and someone will come along! Hang in there Jerry!!Angiehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/13165250449404878303noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7855953606246549491.post-49455627549335894792012-01-24T21:04:44.317-07:002012-01-24T21:04:44.317-07:00Nobody commented? I would agree with you about th...Nobody commented? I would agree with you about the being single stuff. I'm pretty content being single most of the time, but that ache of waking up next to someone, coming home to someone, having someone to talk to, bitch to, cry to, laugh with, etc. can be a pretty large hole at times. Of course, the physical side of things is there as well, but the things I can't do --- kiss, hug, hold my own hand are the things I miss the most. The flip side, though, and you touched on it also -- it is so not worth it to be in a relationship just b/c. If I can't have a relationship as healthy, or healthier, than what I had with Jim, single life is an ok place to be. I don't want it to be the same, but I do need it to be a good connection. :)Shirley Morsenoreply@blogger.com